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If you’re dating a man who has been divorced, chances are he’s had his heart ripped out by someone he held dear.That usually means he’s not going to be in any rush to have it happen again.This guy will need some time to adjust to the idea of a serious relationship. Perhaps you were well-prepared for a few snide remarks or some dirty looks thrown your way. On the other hand, did his ex throw you off kilter by being a complete psycho bitch?Were the live images of her personality even more terrifying than the ones you imagined?Don’t meet the kids right away; give the relationship with you and your guy time to bloom first.
While I did suggest you not talk badly about her to your guy, I never said you couldn’t give this woman a piece of your mind!In this day and age, it isn’t at all unusual to find yourself dating a man who is divorced.With people getting married younger (have you ever watched “16 and Pregnant”? This leads to plenty of good-looking, eligible men on the market who have a past. However, there’s often a stigma that comes with the word “divorce”.My point is, you will be the enemy for a good long while, so enjoy NOT meeting the kids for as long as possible.
Speaking of kids, it’s important not to try too hard when you meet his children.So, aside from being the “bigger man” in the situation, and in spite of any feelings your guy might have towards his ex, you have to be cool so she isn’t interfering with your relationship (and yes, even unknowingly being talked about behind her back is a form of inadvertently interfering in your relationship).