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I also thought paying child support meant your child’s needs were met.
I didn’t realize bills stretch far beyond a daycare’s door.
When you think you’re ready, the children are probably ready a year from that.
Someone can be serious about you, but they may not be ready to introduce you to their kids.
Within the covenant community of faith, there should be those around a person that can speak of their reputation and whether they are serious about growing in the Lord and putting sin to death in their life. Is there seriousness in this person to grow in their relationship and understanding with the Lord?
But in a day when so much nominalism passes for authentic maturity, give us a few simple marks of spiritual growth that a man or woman should be looking for in a potential spouse.
I think what you are looking for is seriousness about growth in the person’s faith.
Ask yourself, is this man in his child’s life for not only the first day of school and graduation but all the moments in between?
If a man is unable to provide for a child financially, that’s not the child’s mother’s fault.
I “met” Deesha Phillywaw through her book Co-parenting 101: Helping Your Kids Thrive in Two Households After Divorce.