It's not so much that the gentlemen themselves aren't high quality (though some aren't) -- it's the marketing. I can't wait to meet you and suck those big a-- tit-s you got." ICK! Bad pictures, poorly written profiles, and misleading information make it frustrating or annoying to sort effectively. If you want to be a man in your online dating profile and truly use the site(s) to attract the woman of your dreams, here are some suggestions. Yes, some idiot actually sent that to me as a text. I love going to the movies or staying home cuddling and watching movies. I am here looking for a serious relationship leading to marriage and willing to move to Malaysia.
Stop taking half-naked photos of yourself in the bathroom mirror. And seeing a toilet, dirty shower, and you standing in a 4' x 6' box is mos def not a turn on. Your profile should not have a disclaimer about what you don't want. Be sure to also listen to pastor Miller's recent pulpit teaching where there is strong connection to the subject matter in this study.God has shared with us through the book of Song of Songs how beautiful and wonderful sex is within the context of a healthy marriage relationship. The question is, whose definition of highly qualified are we talking about? You're demonstrating that you know how to do this whole taking-care-of-a-woman thing from the start.
Certainly not mine, and according to the women in my circles, not theirs either. Now, if you're laid out in a hot tub in a beautiful bathroom with a view of the ocean behind it, that's a different story. For goodness sake, what kind of lazy introduction is that? Taking pix of yourself on the way to being drunk off your ass is not inspiring. You might be God's gift to the party girl, but how are you with a real woman, outside the bar? Do you really want to see all the men I've been with before? If you find yourself listing the faults of all your exes, get counseling or coaching. And chances are, you've been the source of all that drama you claim you don't want. Please have photos that were taken at least within the past year or two.