Men and dating advice
Our minds tell us not to approach people we don’t know as it is outside of our comfort zones. But before we dive in, a quick HEADS-UP – if you’ve recently been through a breakup get the Breakup Survival Guide for Men immediately.You have to realize that males are logical creatures (females are emotional), and that being the case, our mind will give us logical reasons not to approach to keep us safe, to keep us comfortable, and will put our comfort above our happiness. It’s not about being “strong” or “tough” – there are certain psychological and chemical processes that go on in a breakup.
Cajun was the natural choice for this, since he’s one of the most experienced Love Systems instructors.There are men who have dated women they didn’t really like for YEARS because they can’t figure out how to break-up. It’s me,” may be old and tired but it’s really just a kinder stand-in for, “This isn’t working. ” Some women dig for explanations and closure, but does it really matter? “She’s just an old friend.” Really means one of these two options: • 98% “She’s someone I used to date.” • 2% “I once made a move on her and she wasn’t interested.” Any old female friend of your boyfriend is a potential past relationship.