Another trap is being in a relationship that you ARE totally happy in, then letting your friend’s “advice” get into your head. One woman who is pretty much happy in her relationship goes out with her girlfriends.Her relationship isn’t a picture-perfect, fairytale relationship, but there’s no such thing as perfect and overall it is a very good, fulfilling relationship for her.
Bringing it up once is enough, So what makes a guy want to call you his girlfriend?One is staying in a relationship you are not happy in and haven’t been happy in for a while, but you’re staying in it because of the “potential of what it could be.” Frankly, if you don’t like it the way it is, it probably will not change unless he is motivated to change it.If it has not been working for you for a while, then your best bet is probably to lay your cards out on the table: “This is the change I need or I need to leave.” You will either get it or your relationship will end – either way, you’re off the fence instead of settling for an unhappy situation.The relationship at the moment is either working for you or it’s not.
I think there are a few traps in this sort of situation.
There are a multitude of reasons why he may not call you his girlfriend.